Hi ladies, you are obviously here because you are not feeling exactly confident. Wether it be from comparing yourself to other women, which let’s be real with all the social media isn’t easy to avoid. Or a guy breaking your heart. True confidence is not an easy task but can be a lot easier with these tips!
1. Stop Comparing!
Easier said than done but a lot of times it’s easy to get caught up in what you don’t have and what other girls do! Start realizing that everyone has flaws no matter if they have effortlessly beautiful hair that same girl may be struggling with work, school, or a relationship! Every person has something someone else wishes they did, so start focusing on what you offer to others and what your strengths are. Focus on YOU.
2. Know your Worth!
Even if you don’t feel you have a lot of worth let me tell you you do. Sometimes to get approval or acceptance we tend to drop our standards to meet someone else’s! If you are uncomfortable or do not agree with a something someone said or has done or wants you to do, let them know. You don’t have to be rude. Just make it it known what you want for yourself. This may not make everyone happy but will make YOU happy.
3. Be Positive!
Think happy thoughts! When you are down think of something that makes you happy! If that guy didn’t text you back right away don’t overthink it right away and obsess over texting him. Go grab a coffee and catch up with a friend and laugh, or go for a walk and get out! Bottom line think happy when you start thinking negative nothing is more attractive than a happy girl!
4. Take care of Yourself !
Whether it be getting your nails done, putting on some light makeup or doing some yoga and meditation. Whatever makes you feel good and your best do it! self love is the best way to gain some confidence!
5. Try New Things!
If you have been thinking about doing something different like picking up cooking, going to the gym, or creating a new style for yourself do it! You may find things you never knew you were good at! It will be the perfect boost to feel great about yourself!
Confidence is not an easy journey girls! But I hope these tips help along your journey and know how special loved and unique you are!
life and love 